Because flirting is a difficult art to master and that sometimes you waste an incredible amount of time trying to subtly hint that you’re attracted to him, let’s take a look at the best ways to let a guy know you like him without being obvious!
The best ways to let a guy know you like him without being obvious
1/ Be attentive, make him feel special
Getting attention isn’t only for women, keep that in mind! Men like it too. So as soon as you are in the presence of the man you like, even within a group, try to hold his gaze, to build up on top of what he says, be interested in his stories and ask him questions. And whatever happens, don’t whip out your phone in the middle of a conversation with him!
2/ Don’t play too hard to get
Yes it’s a fact, you sometimes have to know how to play hard to get to provoke desire : “follow me and I’ll flee, but if you flee I’ll follow”. But don’t push the saying to the extreme! Because if you play cat and mouse a bit too well, you will without a doubt discourage your crush, who might think that if you ignore and avoid him that much, it must be that you’re not into him after all! So don’t be afraid to tell him that you like him a lot, that will do you both a favor.
3/ Put your guard down and show him your vulnerable side
Which doesn’t mean you should play princess in distress! No, You are a mature adult woman. But learn which barriers to leave open and which to close. Sure it’s important to have the ability to build a stone wall between your heart and the rest of the world from time to time. But putting your guard down and confiding in your crush, thus showing him a more fragile and human side of your personality can go a long way! And that also shows that you trust him.
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4/ Get out of your comfort zone
And try new things! If you want to show him you are worthy and have what it takes to be his sweetheart, show him that you are not afraid of getting out of your comfort zone, and capable of stepping right into your potential future partner’s : discovering a new activity, a new sport, an unusual outing etc… He is bound to notice the efforts you make to open up to his centers of interest.
5/ Your outfit has more power than you think
Back to basics! An appropriate outfit can captivate the eyes from the other side of the room! So, without overdoing it, take the time to choose you clothes according to your target and the impact you plan to make!
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6/ Keep the mystery alive, don’t say too much
If you’re already intimate, that’s great! But if that’s not the case, you probably feel like confiding in him about everything… even the stuff you shouldn’t! Keep some mystery alive, don’t spill all the beans, take your time. Start your relationship first, and then you’ll get to the place where you won’t have any secrets for one another!
7/ Don’t communicate solely by texting
Texts are a fantastic means of communication… but should never grow more important than face to face conversation! Never underestimate the power of real spoken words. Because if you only communicate with phones, there will never be any physical impact.